| Orgasmic sex between consenting adults | | | | talk to your partner about what you'd like |
| provides more benefits to humans than simple | | | | and work together to break through |
| shared intimacy. It's also important in | | | | inhibitions. If your partner is too demanding |
| maintaining one's physical and mental | | | | or not open to such discussion, I suggest you |
| health.Numerous studies have shown the | | | | think about finding another partner.Teach our |
| beneficial effects of regular orgasms. Sex | | | | children. Studies show that children who grow |
| has been shown to be a great cardiovascular | | | | up in households where the parents are more |
| workout and it has been proven to relieve | | | | open about their bodies, as opposed to always |
| stress, thereby preventing stress related | | | | hiding naked bodies behind closed doors, are |
| disorders. Regular, satisfying sex may even | | | | actually better adjusted as adults. Children |
| help you live longer!On the other hand, | | | | who get unconscious signals that the naked |
| sexual frustration, in my opinion, is one of | | | | body is shameful or disgusting end up with |
| the greatest problems humans face today.Now, | | | | many more personal hang ups and inhibitions |
| I'm not talking about a guy who's frustrated | | | | resulting in lower self esteem which only |
| because his wife has been out of town for a | | | | makes it harder to enjoy a healthy sex |
| week. I'm talking about 40 year old guys who | | | | life.And don't be afraid to talk to children |
| have never had sex. I'm talking about women | | | | about sex. It certainly encompasses far more |
| who have been so scarred sexually, that they | | | | than "where do babies come from." Considering |
| are hoping to get through the rest of their | | | | the impact sex, or lack of sex, has on one's |
| lives without ever having to have sex again. | | | | life, it seems pretty silly to make everyone |
| Where does this come from?Well, let's start | | | | figure it all out for themselves by trial and |
| by taking a look at history and religion. In | | | | error. Don't shrink away from opportunities |
| many cultures, sex has been labelled "dirty." | | | | to talk to your children about what you've |
| And it's evident in the way we interact with | | | | learned when it comes to choosing a partner |
| each other every day that this perception has | | | | and maintaining a relationship. Even if you |
| endured. One of the most obvious instances is | | | | don't feel very successful, they can benefit |
| the work "fuck." Apparently left over from | | | | from your openness and experience.Guys, apply |
| even more repressive times, the letters are | | | | yourselves and learn how to get laid. Don't |
| intials describing a stockade offense, "For | | | | say stupid stuff that only serves to increase |
| Unlawful Carnal Knowledge." Today, it has | | | | resistance to sex. You want sex. Don't cut |
| become one of the most negative and widely | | | | off your nose to spite your face by sending |
| used words in American English.Look at high | | | | messages that what you really want is |
| school boys who already have distorted views | | | | disgusting or loathesome. And, don't let |
| of sex before they've even participated in | | | | yourself get to a point where you are so |
| the act. We hear things like, "eat me", "bite | | | | desperate for sex it's all you can think |
| me", "suck this," "nice girls don't but | | | | about. It shows. We've all seen an unneutered |
| naughty girls do," and even as they get | | | | dog that tries to hump the leg of everyone |
| older, "she's fun, but she's not the kind of | | | | that comes along; it's not attractive and it |
| girl you want to marry!" How many good | | | | won't help you reach your goal. Don't be |
| hearted and adventurous teenage girls have | | | | afraid to take matters into your own hands |
| submitted to the wishes of their beau, only | | | | periodically to release excess tension so you |
| to be shamed, publicly ridiculed or | | | | can present the real you to prospective |
| abandoned?Then boys become men. They get | | | | partners.And remember, sex is a two way |
| married to "nice girls" and spend the rest of | | | | street. Men wouldn't want sex all the time if |
| their lives wishing their wives were more | | | | they rarely ever had a real orgasm and it's |
| adventurous in bed. How many husbands hassle | | | | the same for women. I know women who have |
| and harrangue their wives to give them what | | | | never had an honest to goodness, shuddering, |
| they need (often without thinking of their | | | | mind blowing, toe curling orgasm! Why, |
| wife's needs) until she is fed up and no | | | | because their partners were far more |
| longer interested at all? Our whole concept | | | | concerned about their own pleasure instead of |
| of sex has become so twisted that many | | | | focusing on nuturing a long lasting sexual |
| actually scorn its healthful and bonding | | | | relationship. If all you care about is |
| effects because it has become so tangled up | | | | yourself, then go and pay someone to take |
| with pain.And don't forget the contribution | | | | care of your needs. Legal and regulated |
| of acute sexual frustration to crime. Every | | | | prostitution could go a long way to |
| sexual offense has its roots in sexual pain | | | | alleviating the overwhelming amount of sexual |
| and frustration or misconceptions about sex. | | | | tension and resulting crime in our |
| If sex offenders were capable of having | | | | society.Imagine a world where there is no |
| loving, responsible, adult relationships, | | | | sexual tension. Hold on, I'm not talking |
| there would be no need for them to commit | | | | about a world where people run around naked |
| such crimes as rape and molestation.What can | | | | having sex everywhere with anyone who happens |
| we do?First, let's get it straight that sex | | | | to come along. I'm talking about a world |
| is not "dirty." It is a perfectly normal | | | | where people are happy and comfortable with |
| biological function and ignoring the urge | | | | their bodies and sex. Where people are not so |
| won't make it go away. This is simply the way | | | | desperate for physical affection that they |
| we are designed. If we truly have respect for | | | | are actually more attractive. A world where |
| some kind of all powerful Creator, then it's | | | | people feel safe and willing to open |
| time we honor the fact that He/She/It made us | | | | themselves up to all the beneficial effects |
| the way we are. The Human body is a beautiful | | | | of sex. It's a tall order, I know. We've |
| thing and it's wrong for us to attach such | | | | never had such a society, but it's worth it |
| negative connotations to any aspect of our | | | | to try.Gwenneth Morgan is a 40ish, Pagan |
| natural selves in favor of some Human | | | | wife, mother and businesswoman who is totally |
| conception of how we "should" be.We must | | | | fed up with the Old Way. With the belief that |
| learn to embrace our sexuality. Just because | | | | humans have evolved to a point where we can, |
| you might have had a bad experience in the | | | | as a group, embrace the Light, she has found |
| past does not mean you're incapable of having | | | | the courage to openly share her views and |
| a good sexual experience. If your current sex | | | | encourage others to do the same. Visit her |
| life is not all that you'd like it to be, | | | | web site to learn more. |