Sex Is a Good Thing!

Orgasmic sex between consenting adults providesbe, talk to your partner about what you'd like and
more benefits to humans than simple sharedwork together to break through inhibitions. If your
intimacy. It's also important in maintaining one'spartner is too demanding or not open to such
physical and mental health.Numerous studies havediscussion, I suggest you think about finding
shown the beneficial effects of regular orgasms.another partner.Teach our children. Studies show
Sex has been shown to be a great cardiovascularthat children who grow up in households where
workout and it has been proven to relieve stress,the parents are more open about their bodies, as
thereby preventing stress related disorders.opposed to always hiding naked bodies behind
Regular, satisfying sex may even help you liveclosed doors, are actually better adjusted as
longer!On the other hand, sexual frustration, in myadults. Children who get unconscious signals that
opinion, is one of the greatest problems humansthe naked body is shameful or disgusting end up
face today.Now, I'm not talking about a guy who'swith many more personal hang ups and inhibitions
frustrated because his wife has been out of townresulting in lower self esteem which only makes it
for a week. I'm talking about 40 year old guysharder to enjoy a healthy sex life.And don't be
who have never had sex. I'm talking aboutafraid to talk to children about sex. It certainly
women who have been so scarred sexually, thatencompasses far more than "where do babies
they are hoping to get through the rest of theircome from." Considering the impact sex, or lack
lives without ever having to have sex again.of sex, has on one's life, it seems pretty silly to
Where does this come from?Well, let's start bymake everyone figure it all out for themselves by
taking a look at history and religion. In manytrial and error. Don't shrink away from
cultures, sex has been labelled "dirty." And it'sopportunities to talk to your children about what
evident in the way we interact with each otheryou've learned when it comes to choosing a
every day that this perception has endured. Onepartner and maintaining a relationship. Even if you
of the most obvious instances is the work "fuck."don't feel very successful, they can benefit from
Apparently left over from even more repressiveyour openness and experience.Guys, apply
times, the letters are intials describing a stockadeyourselves and learn how to get laid. Don't say
offense, "For Unlawful Carnal Knowledge." Today,stupid stuff that only serves to increase
it has become one of the most negative andresistance to sex. You want sex. Don't cut off
widely used words in American English.Look atyour nose to spite your face by sending
high school boys who already have distortedmessages that what you really want is disgusting
views of sex before they've even participated inor loathesome. And, don't let yourself get to a
the act. We hear things like, "eat me", "bite me",point where you are so desperate for sex it's all
"suck this," "nice girls don't but naughty girls do,"you can think about. It shows. We've all seen an
and even as they get older, "she's fun, but she'sunneutered dog that tries to hump the leg of
not the kind of girl you want to marry!" Howeveryone that comes along; it's not attractive and
many good hearted and adventurous teenage girlsit won't help you reach your goal. Don't be afraid
have submitted to the wishes of their beau, onlyto take matters into your own hands periodically
to be shamed, publicly ridiculed orto release excess tension so you can present the
abandoned?Then boys become men. They getreal you to prospective partners.And remember,
married to "nice girls" and spend the rest of theirsex is a two way street. Men wouldn't want sex
lives wishing their wives were more adventurousall the time if they rarely ever had a real orgasm
in bed. How many husbands hassle and harrangueand it's the same for women. I know women
their wives to give them what they need (oftenwho have never had an honest to goodness,
without thinking of their wife's needs) until she isshuddering, mind blowing, toe curling orgasm! Why,
fed up and no longer interested at all? Our wholebecause their partners were far more concerned
concept of sex has become so twisted thatabout their own pleasure instead of focusing on
many actually scorn its healthful and bondingnuturing a long lasting sexual relationship. If all you
effects because it has become so tangled up withcare about is yourself, then go and pay someone
pain.And don't forget the contribution of acuteto take care of your needs. Legal and regulated
sexual frustration to crime. Every sexual offenseprostitution could go a long way to alleviating the
has its roots in sexual pain and frustration oroverwhelming amount of sexual tension and
misconceptions about sex. If sex offenders wereresulting crime in our society.Imagine a world
capable of having loving, responsible, adultwhere there is no sexual tension. Hold on, I'm not
relationships, there would be no need for them totalking about a world where people run around
commit such crimes as rape and molestation.Whatnaked having sex everywhere with anyone who
can we do?First, let's get it straight that sex ishappens to come along. I'm talking about a world
not "dirty." It is a perfectly normal biologicalwhere people are happy and comfortable with
function and ignoring the urge won't make it gotheir bodies and sex. Where people are not so
away. This is simply the way we are designed. Ifdesperate for physical affection that they are
we truly have respect for some kind of allactually more attractive. A world where people
powerful Creator, then it's time we honor thefeel safe and willing to open themselves up to all
fact that He/She/It made us the way we are.the beneficial effects of sex. It's a tall order, I
The Human body is a beautiful thing and it'sknow. We've never had such a society, but it's
wrong for us to attach such negativeworth it to try.Gwenneth Morgan is a 40ish, Pagan
connotations to any aspect of our natural selveswife, mother and businesswoman who is totally
in favor of some Human conception of how wefed up with the Old Way. With the belief that
"should" be.We must learn to embrace ourhumans have evolved to a point where we can,
sexuality. Just because you might have had a badas a group, embrace the Light, she has found the
experience in the past does not mean you'recourage to openly share her views and encourage
incapable of having a good sexual experience. Ifothers to do the same. Visit her web site to learn
your current sex life is not all that you'd like it tomore.